I dunno, I usually start my campaign going from village to village returning wayward daughters. At a minimum of 1.5k a pop to either persuade the girl or kill some poor sob who can barely use a blade, I usually net a good sum.
This makes you a dishonourable swinedog though
Not at all! My honor rating is "honest," and I am simply upholding ye olde law. The father of the house decides the role of his children and whom they marry. The Almighty has made it so, and to forsake this venerable custom is dissidence and blasphemy!
I usually wait until I have a companion to kill the bridenapper. I can't be bothered to get my sword bloody, although its a relatively easy fight. I could internally justify the whole thing as believing the bridenapper is really a ne're do well that won't be able to support himself or the headman's daughter. I mean, if the ne're do well is going to just gamble away his money, use drugs, and eventually sell the daughter to slavers, then I'm the hero.
...what I actually do is say "Ah yes, these elders have it right. Nowadays, too few parents teach their children how to properly hate. This girl, she will have the ability to hate, for whatever virtue there is in that."
Then I buy something nice and quickly forget about her.