Mount & Blade Warband
He was, as best as I can tell, the only bachelor with holdings who wasn't a complete and utter asshole. No town or castle, but at least he had two villages.
He was also, to be fair, respectful. Not the trite flowery "chivalry" BS, but a moderate level of flattery and respect at my bizarre status. *acknowledging* said status, with confusion and interest.
Being an outsider with only the one village by my sword, his courtship was sufficient that I knew we could continue as equals.
I know own his holdings - border villages ignored by most. And that's why they're valuable. The Sunnate will ebb and fall, but Iqbayl and Fishara will only fall if I drop the ball very intentionally for hours of real time.
The only question is how to gain the title for the city of those villages. Distant Bariyye.
How did I last own? A marriage of availability, beard, wine, and fellowship in battle.
And now I own those villages, with him.
Mount & blade Warband
Edit: Let it be known! I only had the one village, but I saved him from the Khergit creeps. And his uncle, on an unrelated occasion, and also two other battle-siblings on other occasions!
I am the BEST shieldmaiden, THE FIRST HUMANKIND ALL OVER THE WORLD