Don't forget to catch an elven woman and avenge the deaths of your fellow humans/dwarves
First, make sure she can't hurt you by locking her limbs. Grab her clothes off. Throw them away but not at her. You want her to be alive. You then proceed to pinch the upper and lower body (Use your imagination for a better effect.) and even grabbing them. With your hands. Not your biceps or something. Choke her a bit if you have that particular fetish. If you mod the game so you can grab with your lower body... You grab her lower body with your lower body and proceed to lock and unlock it. Let your imagination fill what's going on. No pun intended. You could also skip the fight entirely if you just recruit a female elven child at a goblin fort. But that's only for pedophiles.
The best way to find such a woman is to recruit her as a companion.