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Really strange seeing this moving out of proportion by focusing only on very specific things and extrapolating that to mischaracterize people v: especially in depiction of Kitfox/"what it means for me" when, as stated by tons of people around and posts unquoted, what was done was very reasonable and appending further malice onto them...because of not being as connected or inferring by this thread (which looks a ton like not being accountable for one's own actions/feelings/introspection) isn't going to be helpful, though that's one intended effect of downplaying others' integrity and the reductivity/omission that can be an integral part of it.

Kitfox built its community upon works and cultural writing from folks like Victoria Tran (author of the article, "designing communities for kindness") and how many more people still continuing it today. That other people's experiences matter while never diminishing others in turn, etc etc etc. The review process for selecting Discord Moderators is very thorough and people are chosen--not that I actually know but based on my experience--on continuous and genuine depth and character. There will always be more to say because of people who understand the impact of what's up, but not when mischaracterization is focused on instead.

Continuing the complaint as if still justified despite having been notified/told about what happened, instead of moving forward in goodwill/growth...doesn't help anyone. Folks have already covered the issue in full in just less than 5 forum pages; this isn't any conundrum or any moral failing--understanding context matters and people have given that in full.

Especially given the fact that...this is all on an emoticon, and there are tons more available that don't have such connotations. If it's Really, Sincerely, Genuinely about the "rule", that's been thoroughly covered already, especially when being told about details behind it. The question could even move to "are you satisfied with this now that you may know more?" All this effort to reinforce something like spitting at someone who told you in good faith not to so something is really needless (metaphor notwithstanding); it doesn't do more or add to what's going on. I mean, maybe it's a cultural issue seeing the effort into this complaint but passive aggressiveness doesn't go well as a whole, across cultures.

If you'll raise complaints, put as much effort into receiving feedback as you would in turn.

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Other Games / Re: XMAS 2022 GIVEAWAY
« on: December 31, 2022, 11:43:37 pm »
Hwaaaa, thanks all for this and for continuing the annual tradition! It is highly appreciated! :'( May this continue on, thanks a1s for forwarding these!

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General Discussion / Re: LGBTQ+ Thread
« on: December 29, 2022, 10:31:22 pm »
Hugs Vec :<

It's fully okay to cry ESPECIALLY especially especially just because. That one is in a country where a ton of (recycled, hateful) rhetoric is repeated by supported platforms that push complete fabrication is also a thing independent of that. x~x You can feel!

Also I don't see anything wrong in realizing stuff with media at any age? A good adage that struck me from found family was the note of "We age non-linearly" especially given how trauma or other factors (even developmental) don't necessarily readily apply in how many contexts, especially in neurodivergence/neurodiversity, and furthermore especially when it comes to whatever standards of age-related success there is.

It's going to be a process. Connection/Organization has helped tons, because wow individual power will be strained if not within collective care. :(

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It really went in here, hum.

Before the current spread in many media areas (as noted before), the context of pepe in 2016ish was in a really toxic environment//in favorable or common use by hate groups/4chan--commonly using reductivity, dismissiveness, and bad faith to spread tones from bigotry to worse. Didn't help that many depictions were worsened from where they were taken to make fun of others espefiallt marginalized people or mis/disrepresent their arguments. The artist who made the character had to kill the character off and such, seeing the impact and common use of their work. Excusing any of this as "any symbol can be used for hate" can literally miss...that it was already done and has impacted tons of people; people don't just do this. That was all before Twitch and other platforms got immersed with it by cultural drift, commonly from the same people who would spread it as if innocuous later on and would notably somehow cling to or insist upon its use over others. My badly done notes at 5am having only mediocre experience tracking symbols here. But it doesn't even matter if people remember that time--what matters is that there was something important mentioned.

If innocuous, the best idea to work with is going "Why" and then having detail on why, and then moving with that. If it's so common as plainly washed in the OP, then realizing "perhaps there's a reason why there's this manner of action", like any good faith approach would bring to any reasonable person, much less someone in the position of a public discord moderator. That stuff is stressful and nobody in experience becomes one effectively considering Dwarf Fortress' publisher, gauging their own mental health.

The issue isn't with Kitfox but the persistence to stand upon this as if it matters when... there's Literally Any Other Art present and absolutely no restriction to choosing otherwise espefially when notified about it. It's even mentioned how many times in the server itself--initially the admin folks thought it wasn't as needed to uphold but then it became a wonderful unintentional litmus test as people who worked with decency and genuineness would generally go "oh" after asking "why" and basically Not Do The Thing when it becomes known it factually affects people negatively, and in a server like that, community-building is a focus. As anyone would detail IN GOOD FAITH: People don't need to even bring up the swastika (or non-eurocentric ones) to realize, actually, hate continues on today and perhaps being an international (or even local) context still perhaps has people affected. That there is a significant intensity to it is in the very least important to recognize, unless one's sense of "I'm not affected" is somehow more important than...others' concerns.

So basically it all depends on how much you care about other people vs "you bothering about it". Pretty annoyed that contextual details keep getting washed away by omission, but that's the power of time and memory and repeating something else rather than be accountable and learn. You can do better; there's a lot of space for it. There's more than "regret" there.

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Didn't/Never had a happy holidays here (*given foster family situations) but! Always happy this time of year due to found family. The power people wield when they found their relationships on ideals and Thought and communication and more.

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Other Games / Re: XMAS 2022 GIVEAWAY
« on: December 27, 2022, 08:40:17 am »
I've been here since Feb. 2019, do I count?
Count for what? You are eligible to participate in the giveaway.
I'm unsure you edited the Thing(TM) :P

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1 ) You must have made your Bay12 account before November 22, 2019. This giveaway is meant to contribute back to the community.

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General Discussion / Re: LGBTQ+ Thread
« on: December 27, 2022, 08:15:33 am »
Meant to ask this ages and ages ago, but Tiruin, has your avatar always had the trans pride flag in it, or did I just fail to notice it until after I found out what the trans pride flag looked like?
I love you noticing this, and no! I edited it in subtly just this year (or was it last year?)
It was originally some light tan color until I realized (given being friends with the artist who spliced it waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay before the program that made splicing accessible was made) that I can edit it myself.

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Other Games / Re: XMAS 2022 GIVEAWAY
« on: December 27, 2022, 08:00:41 am »
I guess I'll personally enter for Barotrauma since a good person in found fam did speak about that this one time! Please sign me up for Barotrauma

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Other Games / Re: XMAS 2022 GIVEAWAY
« on: December 26, 2022, 02:23:34 am »
Since it currently looks like my three games tomorrow are going directly to the orphanage, I'd just like to quick plug them.
Endless Space 2 is a 4x turn-based strategy game. I found the game pretty fun when I got it a few years ago, and the card tactic space battles are a neat way of doing space battles.
Spyro Reignited Trilogy is a classic series of platform featuring the purple dragon Spyro, remastered and bundled into one game.
Wargroove is a turn-based tactics fantasy game in the vein of Advance Wars. I played this when it came out, really enjoyed the genre throwback, and have been meaning to get back into playing it one of these days.
Would recommend all these for anyone; they are GREAT AND COMFY (Spyro; the nostalgia! But also the Endless series is just, Great Music and more)

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General Discussion / Re: LGBTQ+ Thread
« on: December 26, 2022, 02:16:21 am »
First off: this thread has excellent gender, this'll go nicely in my entropy pool. Gendernoise here.
Power to all those who use it/its and more c:

but also the art people linked is such Good(TM)

alway always has great points on that note.

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Other Games / Re: XMAS 2022 GIVEAWAY
« on: December 22, 2022, 10:36:08 pm »
I haven't participated in years, but thank you a1s for running this!
Same feels here :'( It's great going back to this.

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Other Games / Re: XMAS 2022 GIVEAWAY
« on: December 22, 2022, 03:55:05 am »
Posting again for said friend!

They would like to enter in:
Factorio
Going Medieval
Stacklands
The Keep


Orphans they wish to claim:
Tacoma
Super Meat Boy
Industria
NecroWorm


Apologies again if this seems roundabout x.x; it's weird steam issues and thus they can't post as per rules needing the Steam linkie.

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Other Games / Re: XMAS 2022 GIVEAWAY
« on: December 22, 2022, 03:47:17 am »
Would like to enter for them:

911 Operator
112 Operator
...
Well, why doesn't your friend just save those two from Orphanage? The more with AlStar now adding one more 911 Operator there.
Oh I didn't check (busy busy and all), RIP me. I'll message them on it! Thank you!

Tiruin, at least for Dwarf Fortress, I will only be able to purchase copies through Steam, which can only be sent to accounts on your friend list. In such a situation, I think your bud wouldn't want that. If I'm mistaken, let me know, otherwise I won't be including them in my drawing.

(Among the complexities of living in China is also a frequent frustration with international purchases, so I really can only reliably purchase those copies through Steam's gift service. Wish I could just buy codes, but alas....)
"I'll send them a friend request and inform them by PM that it's me." so basically this is all good c: Thank you for your foresight in prefacing!

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General Discussion / Re: LGBTQ+ Thread
« on: December 20, 2022, 09:10:54 pm »
I mean, being harassed isn't the be all end all--it's just wow a culture of oppression sucks and is amplified a ton; I feel deflecting that same suppression by your own control is what's more being explored.

Because wow there's some bits of that culture that make things so harsh that assimilation and its own culture is pretty much unseen in it. GLAD THAT GOT PARTIALLY RECOGNIZED in the WPATH Standards of Care 8 (which FINALLY has people's voices from the community compared to the rubbish 2012 version), and it's still lacking to put it lightly, but obviously very much improved.

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Other Games / Re: XMAS 2022 GIVEAWAY
« on: December 20, 2022, 08:42:35 pm »
Asked a1s on this, and received a yes, so prefacing as I'm entering for a bay12 friend who, by nature of some weird Steam stuff can't post for themself for personal reasons (which can be anything from anxiety to more, all being valid because wow mood though I didn't ask despite seeing the feels and vibes) but under good faith.

Would like to enter for them:

911 Operator
112 Operator
Cities Skylines
Dwarf Fortress
Pixplode
Rimworld
Slay the Spire
SUPERHOT


Okay - results of the December 20th drawings:
112 Operator - hector13 wins!
911 Operator - orphan'd
Broken Age - orphan'd
Brothers: A Tale of Two Sons  - orphan'd
Cities in Motion - orphan'd
Corridor Z - orphan'd
Crying Suns - notquitethere wins!
Europa Universalis IV - 1freeman wins!
Forgive Me Father - Mookzen wins!
Friday the 13th - orphan'd
Go Home Dinosaurs  - orphan'd
Golf It! - orphan'd
Industria - orphan'd
Kerbal Space Program - scriver wins!
Monaco - orphan'd
NecroWorm - orphan'd
PGA Tour 2K21 - orphan'd
Ring of Pain - ventuswings wins!
ROUNDS - orphan'd
Rover Mechanic Simulator - orphan'd
Super Meat Boy - orphan'd
Superbrothers: Sword & Sworcery EP - orphan'd
Supraland - ventuswings wins!
Tacoma - orphan'd
This War of Mine - martinuzz wins!
Tropico 3: Gold Edition - orphan'd
West of Dead - orphan'd

Congrats to the winners!

I'll add anyone who isn't already on my Steam list to my friends list. If the idea of being Steam friends brings bile and disgust to you, send me a direct message and I'll message the key over.

Aww heeeeeck cheers to all these folks! Lotsa nice stuff in the pick up section.
...I do wonder if it can be renamed from being orphan'd though--or maybe it's just me in facing adoption myself. Unsure! It feels there's more terms that can fit? @_@;

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