Howdy all. After playing the hell out of the 2D and first 3D (2007) version of the game I really haven't played much since the big 2010 update. I am now getting back into the game again and have some questions about how the new military systems work. I have done a quick search here and have read the wiki but am not finding answers there.
I have dwarfs who are supposed to be in active squads, with orders, running around as idle civilians instead of going to their station/train. I have the minimum number of dwarfs set below the number in the squad; alerts and schedules all look fine. Is this just more Dwarven Free Will
TM or am I doing something wrong?
Does anyone use training weapons? If so what is the best way? I just had my first ambush and all of my soldiers ran outside with their wooden weapons.

Also my dwarfs seem to grab weapons that are different than what they should based on their skills. That is mostly my fault because I had forgot to assign them the proper weapons, but it seems they should still default to what they know best.
Also is there any way to tie uniforms/equipment to schedules or alert status?
I think that's it for now. Thanks in advance.