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« on: March 13, 2010, 11:33:35 am »
What I find when you are with groups of people, is to like hang out with them.
Don't expect to put yourself by yourself and not get reactions.
Back on my 16th birthday...no one came to it, I gave invitations, but that didn't change the fact nobody came. Not even my family outside the house came. About 6 months later my brother had his birthday. He's starting middle school. Well, friend's from his school showed up, including like, OTHER PEOPLE.
That was the end of 10th grade when no one came to my b-day.
This week we just had, I think it was Tuesday. I was sitting at lunch and one of my friends you can say asked when we could hang out, I kinda said I don't know and what not, but now I know that option is always available.
You need to stop thinking hmmm how do I put this.
It seems the start of 11th grade changed me (around September '09). Before then I thought so horrible of other people, people I didn't know I just hated them because they didn't pass my impossible test. I expected everyone to be like me, but you can't be thinking that. I wanted friends that had the same motivation, interests, etc. You have to realize though that people are who they are I needed to stop being so shallow.
During groups of people activities I used to find myself isolating myself for no other reason then not having to contact with other people, I'm passed that now.
Humans are meant to interact with each other (what do you think I'm doing right now).
Now I think of other people as people, sure some people are complete jerk asses, but you don't make friends with those people. I can name off about 20 people I know I can talk to at school, maybe even more.
About the interests thing, I don't know anybody with even remotely similar interests with me at school, and talking about that kinda stuff would make me look like weirdo, but whatever. You need to be able to connect with what the group is talking about right now. I wouldn't want somebody that only talks about one thing would you?
Another thing, the whole look at someone elses point of view works well sometimes. If you saw someone do what you did, would you consider it normal or whatever,
Normal is a weird word, I'm not going tp bother explaining it though, just.
1. Don't isolate yourself because that kinda makes you lonely.
2. Don't have people try to pass your impossible test.
3. Think before you speak hurrr.