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DF General Discussion / Re: Catsplosions in other media
« on: May 29, 2012, 02:38:08 am »
Putnam is correct. The easy way to tell if it "sounds right" is to remove the other party.
"This happened to my friend and I." --> "This happened to I."
"This happened to my friend and me." --> "This happened to me."
"I" is the first-person subject pronoun, and "me" is the first-person object pronoun.
You may be important for the content of the sentence, but you are not the subject grammatically. The subject performs the action, while objects do not. We can make this easier to see by adding a non-essential word:
"This [event] happened to my friend and me." The event did the happening, and it did it to my friend and me.
"This happened to my friend and I." --> "This happened to I."
"This happened to my friend and me." --> "This happened to me."
"I" is the first-person subject pronoun, and "me" is the first-person object pronoun.
You may be important for the content of the sentence, but you are not the subject grammatically. The subject performs the action, while objects do not. We can make this easier to see by adding a non-essential word:
"This [event] happened to my friend and me." The event did the happening, and it did it to my friend and me.