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« on: February 18, 2011, 07:35:44 pm »
A: If you can't get to a club of some sort then you could always try something different that will make sure to attract a certain type of person to talk to you. For example, writing your email address or whatever on a bunch of paper aeroplanes and throwing them of a tall building would probably attract fun/curious people who want to know who would do such a thing.
Personally, I have no problems with making a fool of myself so I just walk up to someone in the street/shop/cinema and make conversation with them, before you know it you're at the cafe chilling out.
B: Once you've met someone then it's a simple case of getting them on Facebook or their phone number (I don't use a telephone at all unless I'm ordering Chinese food or it's an emergency, so I wouldn't know about phone numbers) and hanging out some time. Find something you have in common and do it together, or at least talk about it.
C: I'm not an expert with this, but I generally find that any sort of relationship that doesn't involve romance is a friendship with women, there is no 'acquaintance' stage or anything. Of course, this may just be that I find it easier to make friends with women than men, but whatever.