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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: March 11, 2019, 06:29:27 pm »Today I realized I don't even have the friends I made in college anymore.
Had a hard "where the hell did my school-friends go" realization 3 or so weeks ago.
Was sitting in a tram with my sister and a girl sat down two rows away on a seat facing us. I turn to my sis and ask her if its only me being confused again, or if that girl really looks exactly like somebody I was good friends with back in school (using the first name of my classmate). Sis says sure, they could be twins actually.
Girl has apparently heard us and sits down on the nearest seat facing us, gives us the full name of my old classmate. Turned out my old friend is her mum, and that she's 16.
We finished school in 2002, for her to have a 16 year old daughter that I never even heard about means that I've lost contact with her basically the day we graduated. Which I apparently did, no matter how hard I try I can't come up with a single time I've seen her since.
That, in turn, made me realize that I have not seen, or even spoken to any of my old classmates (with 2 exceptions) since we graduated. We all basically went from spending school and most of our free time together to total silence in a single day. Kinda funny how easy it is to "forget" people.
Realizing that actually made me depressed for days.
