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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 14, 2016, 05:04:50 pm »
Better too hard than too lax?

Considering you are talking about killing yourself, I'm going to go with no.

What's the point in starting if I can't reliably get more stuff done than what pops up, and signs point to me not having the capability to keep up with the backlog? If I were certain I could get things done faster than they pop up, it wouldn't be a problem.

Because you get worked up by shit building up that hasn't been done and think about killing yourself as a result :P

You say you don't have the capability to do it. If that is true, why are you getting worked up to that point over it?

Everything is equally important but I guess I have to motivate myself through will or force to keep up with the attrition of things popping up. I just cleared quite a bit of housework but I'm still nervous.

Why? I am going to assume you mean anxious, as that makes more sense in context and it tends to linger after whatever stimulated it goes away.

Nasty double whammy though; anxiety telling you shit needs to get done while depression tells you you can't do it.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 14, 2016, 03:20:35 pm »
What circumstances? When you boil it all down everybody's the same. We all need the same things or we'll die, and we all want the same things or we'll go mad. You are also biased when it comes to you. The number of times you've come in here and said "I'm shit" versus the number of people who have said "no you're not" puts you quite firmly in the minority when it comes to considering your value.

If you weren't able to do the three weeks worth of stuff at the time they came up, how does it compute that you can do it all now? I can't imagine circumstances have changed that much in three weeks. You're being too hard on yourself with that expectation.

I imagine the scale of 3 weeks worth of shit piling up is also providing you an excuse not to do it, though. So much shit to do, what's the point in starting, eh?

Do what you can. That's all that you can reasonably expect of yourself. Also prioritize. Anything that doesn't have to be done, or doesn't have to be done by you, can be ignored for the time being.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 14, 2016, 02:38:07 pm »
Telling him we love him isn't helpful.

Asking why the fuck he needs to do everything that's piled up over weeks instantly is a good question, though.

Living your life for others is stupid, too. You can't control the goings on in someone else's life, so what's the point in tying your happiness to someone else?

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 14, 2016, 07:09:04 am »
Well... you did bad shit, and she's only just been told about it. She needs time to process it.

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Mafia / Re: Beginner's Mafia LX: The Sickening Six - Day 3
« on: September 13, 2016, 07:59:09 pm »
Day 3

Votes

vishdafish - origamiscienceguy (1)
Kilojoule Proton - LARD (1)
LARD -
origamisciencyguy - vishdafish, Kilojoule Proton (2)
Imic - Tiruin (1)
Tiruin -

No Lynch -

Extensions (1 remaining) - 2/2 - LARD, Tiruin

Shortens - 0/3 -

Day 3 has been extended and will end at 2pm on Friday, or 66 hours, 5 minutes.

There are no more extensions remaining for D3



I wouldn't worry about me, I don't really have to do anything.

I will apologize for a lack of flavour in the last few summaries, not doing well recently in terms of sleep, which means I am much more prone to migraines, yay!

I will remind Tiruin that juicebox was NK'd N2, 'cause I think it has something to do with me forgetting that earlier heh.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you go "WTF?" today o_O
« on: September 13, 2016, 07:34:21 pm »
Perhaps she was monitoring your progress, objectively.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you go "WTF?" today o_O
« on: September 13, 2016, 06:00:55 pm »
You won't be manipulating the state so much as the people though.

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I'm sure licking knobs can open many doors for a lady.

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Other Games / Re: Gaming Pet Peeves
« on: September 13, 2016, 04:45:23 pm »
It seems an awful effort to go to for a granary.

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Other Games / Re: Crusader Kings 2 is released.
« on: September 13, 2016, 04:44:27 pm »
Depending on who your chancellor is, you can periodically check their gold balance. If they don't generally make 50 gold very quickly, you'll know when they've been bribed.

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Second image preferred.

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Mafia / Re: Beginner's Mafia LX: The Sickening Six - Day 3
« on: September 13, 2016, 11:41:22 am »
Well.

You all need to be prodded.

26 hours left.

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Other Games / Re: SALES Thread
« on: September 13, 2016, 11:18:53 am »
I am reasonably sure the No Man's Sky thread was locked for the polarizing effect it has on opinion. There may be no rule against it, but the topic has a history.

Best stop while you're ahead.

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you sad today thread.
« on: September 13, 2016, 03:46:04 am »
The sensitivity wasn't so much from the word being bad (though it kinda is) it was more "you probably shouldn't be saying that since OW got banned for saying that" :P

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General Discussion / Re: Things that made you go "WTF?" today o_O
« on: September 13, 2016, 12:25:59 am »
I have a calculator on my phone.

It's quicker to use than Google.

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