Sorry, didn't mean to make you pull out the soapbox. I'll head back to your regularly scheduled WTF now.
It's all good. I shouldn't actually respond to such things. :/ I'm just defensive because I looked that stupid, knew it, and kept doing it anyway.
I'm right there with you, bro. Sobriety was my only option, though, because I got with a woman who wanted me to be a family man, and for some reason, I did everything I could to please her. That...turned out less than well.
Strange. I was with a woman I would have done anything for, then she broke me and tossed me aside, so I decided non-sobriety might be a better option that sobriety. Now I've decided celibacy is the best option, because I'm not emotionally stable in relationships. At least until I get off Drug court, then I can reevaluate my options.
I'm sure there are worse things than celibacy.
Haven't experienced any other state of being, so I have no reference mind you...