The term "cheating" totally sidetracked this thread. If you're going to argue against numerical stats, calling it "cheating" isn't the way to go.
Why? When I play DF, I see 15+ rooms at once. It's a giant, enclosed stone fortress...and I see 15+ rooms at once, including all the inhabitants, friend or foe.
So unless DF is a game about a mind flayer running a dwarven fortress (an idea not without its merits) then there's already some "cheating" occuring in how much information you're given about your fortress.
In short, "cheating" is a terrible argument. I agree that numerical stats shouldn't exist, but there are better reasons than "it's cheating".