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Quote from: Xantalos on September 07, 2012, 01:17:33 am

The thing is, my genetalia is the thing incessantly pushing me to sex sex sex. Goddamn genetalia.

Here's the secret: Their's are too. You don't really need to hide that you're interested in that way, just give them their due respect.


I'm a dateless loser, but I do know why the "confident" guys often are the ones with girlfriends. They actually put themselves out there and communicate their interest, rather than hiding it out of some misplaced shame or insecurity.

Indeed. I just can't figure out whether I cna't figure out how to express my desires and am thus expressing hatred of them when all I need is a proper outlet or if I never wanted the desires in the first place. I'm thinking #2, but that's just me.

Quote from: Xantalos on September 07, 2012, 01:09:59 am

Quote from: Hanslanda on September 07, 2012, 01:04:03 am

Quote from: kaijyuu on September 07, 2012, 01:01:35 am

Hey now, no self shaming along those lines. It's reasonable dislike not having good enough control, but wanting to get rid of the urge isn't the answer. Self control comes with experience and maturity.

This. I couldn't keep it in my pants until I realized how bad shit would get if I didn't keep it in my pants.

I'd probably regret it if I got rid of my sex drive, but still, I just really don't appreciate how it made me unable to talk to the opposite sex for a good while. ...That's actually a really petty reason. I just do not appreciate the awkwardness that results. I could rant on this for hours, but I'll stop.

The main thing that I see is that, in the heat of the moment, dudes forget that women are people, too. Most women, in my experience, appreciate direct and unhidden meaning. For some reason, people turn talking to the opposite gender into a huge cat-and-mouse game, when it doesn't have to be. Just...talk to people. If it winds up that you get intimate, use protection. *shrug* I've never understood why the process is so difficult.

The thing is, my genetalia is the thing incessantly pushing me to sex sex sex. Goddamn genetalia.

Quote from: kaijyuu on September 07, 2012, 01:01:35 am

Hey now, no self shaming along those lines. It's reasonable dislike not having good enough control, but wanting to get rid of the urge isn't the answer. Self control comes with experience and maturity.

This. I couldn't keep it in my pants until I realized how bad shit would get if I didn't keep it in my pants.

I'd probably regret it if I got rid of my sex drive, but still, I just really don't appreciate how it made me unable to talk to the opposite sex for a good while. ...That's actually a really petty reason. I just do not appreciate the awkwardness that results. I could rant on this for hours, but I'll stop.

Quote from: Flying Dice on September 07, 2012, 12:07:14 am

Nice body, Jesus. Looks like you've been hitting the gym.

And laying off the hookers and booze. Charlie Sheen never looked that good.

Are you implying that Charlie Sheen is Jesus?

Khaaaaaaaaan!!!

9/10

Quote from: Xantalos on September 06, 2012, 10:07:55 pm

Quote from: MaximumZero on September 06, 2012, 10:02:47 pm

Quote from: Euld on September 06, 2012, 10:01:10 pm

Apparently Obama is forcing gay marriage on America.  All of you straight folk will be assimilated.  Resistance is futile.  We will add your fabulousness to our own.

Wait...if he forces all the straight people into gay marriage, and the republicans force all the gay people into straight marriage...

I'll be ForeverAlone. FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU--

So everyone will be both gay and straight at the same time.

I'm ALREADY gay and straight. They'll force me into celibacy!

Glad to see they're serving my extreme minority interests at least.