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General Discussion / Re: AmeriPol: Congress attempts to cross streams while working on tax 'reform'
« on: November 15, 2017, 07:27:58 pm »
I personally think it can be fine to compare your own values to someone else's and judge theirs as alien or stupid, and that the inherent subjectivity and difficulties in doing this are usually overstated. The trick is to also learn to judge your own stupid values against the values of others, and I think this process happens more easily (at least from passive observation under amiable settings) than many people think.
However, this is totally distinct from assessing the degree to which people are responsible for their stupid values (and everyone has stupid values), which is a far more complicated question drawing from many more areas of thought and innumerable unknowable details of a person's life. In my opinion it isn't a question worth pursuing, and that it is far more productive to just accept that people have stupid values, concentrating on improving your own stupid values wherever you are fortunate enough to notice them.
Anyway, my main point is that if you never compare your own values to others and judge them accordingly, improvement is impossible, and that conflating this with the question of personal responsibility out of a good-willed sense of tolerance can be harmful.
However, this is totally distinct from assessing the degree to which people are responsible for their stupid values (and everyone has stupid values), which is a far more complicated question drawing from many more areas of thought and innumerable unknowable details of a person's life. In my opinion it isn't a question worth pursuing, and that it is far more productive to just accept that people have stupid values, concentrating on improving your own stupid values wherever you are fortunate enough to notice them.
Anyway, my main point is that if you never compare your own values to others and judge them accordingly, improvement is impossible, and that conflating this with the question of personal responsibility out of a good-willed sense of tolerance can be harmful.
