(who makes it to the final year of college without knowing what the best way they learn is?)
If it helps you with understanding any, the answer was "Probably most of her class." It's pretty rare you actually meet a student that has accurately identified their best way(s) to learn (and still somewhat unusual you meet one that's even explicitly thought about it
at all), and that's true at... pretty much any level. College seniors, post grads, returning students in their 50s+ that have been working for years, straight up decades experience tenured professors... I've seen examples of each of those that had basically no bloody clue how they learned or (sometimes horribly) mistaken about what worked for them, and they generally tend to be at
least a plurality of the people in question. Lot of folks seem to just kinda' blunder their way through that sort of thing, yeah.
Then she talks about resumes and interviews and "selling yourself" started to look more and more like "borderline lying".
And yeah, that's... well, it's pretty close to what's being said. Squeeze as much out of what you've got as possible, and probably a bit beyond. Hell of a thing to get your head around if you're particularly inclined towards honesty, heh. Pretty terrible at it, m'self, and the resumes I've wrote up so far are more or less shite, but you do what you can. The rumination part of it is definitely something I feel you in regards to, but I can say it gets a little easier once you've done it a few times (and preferably got a template that does most of the work for you, so you don't have to think about it anymore and just tailor things a little to the position you're applying for.).