Let's see... Women being forced into medical procedures? "Maybe that's reasonable." Men paying for babies that THEY don't want? "That's not right!"
If that's referencing me, I never said that former thing. The latter? Yes, I do find that unreasonable. The man is FORCED to go along with the mother's decision, whether he likes it or not.
Also, in the case of a man that can't afford it? Ha, enjoy getting fucked over. Either you pay and live in utter poverty, or you don't, land in jail, and have to pay it later.
... leafsnail covered that well. No, the guy doesn't get a choice in the bits involving birth, beyond whether to screw or not (well, barring him getting raped, of course). Not his body, not his choice. Afterwards, either parent is equally screwed by child support related stuff. Child support is not an equivalent issue to carrying a child to term. At all.
Incidentally, last I checked, the guy
isn't actually legally required to support the woman during pregnancy, nor provide medical coverage. When something like that does happen, it's usually due to other issues, so far as I'm aware. I know my father damn sure didn't help out financially during the hospital stay, but that may have changed over the years.
Note: You want to cut off the child support fees? Obtain custody, and then get the kid adopted.