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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 04, 2015, 09:08:27 am »Is this a serious relationship question thread?
Yes, I'll answer any questions.
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Yes, I'll answer any questions.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 04, 2015, 08:33:58 am »Please take your identity theft to Life Advice, the subforum best suited to it.
Identity theft... of a nametag on 4chan... that has existed for less than two weeks? And I already said I'm not claiming it anymore, let people think what they will.
If mods are willing to move this thread I'm fine with it. If it's better for me to remake it I'm fine with it too.
Why are you so eager to answer questions no-one's even asked yet? And why do you need a dedicated thread just for that purpose?
Why not go to an existing thread and try approaching people with your advice, instead of demanding that they approach you with their problems?
I think it's best that you just let this thread die. If you really want to help people, there are ways to do it with less self-aggrandizement.
I'm not demanding, and I didn't mean to make it self-aggradizing, I was just being practical. I've done many threads like this before, and this seemed like a popular enough board for it to take place. I haven't talked about myself at all, only about this ability that I have no doubt about. If it has to die it will die, if someone asks me something I'll answer. I'm not in the mood to go searching for threads where people might want help.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 04, 2015, 04:41:07 am »Please take your identity theft to Life Advice, the subforum best suited to it.
Identity theft... of a nametag on 4chan... that has existed for less than two weeks? And I already said I'm not claiming it anymore, let people think what they will.
If mods are willing to move this thread I'm fine with it. If it's better for me to remake it I'm fine with it too.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 04, 2015, 03:16:00 am »You don't have the patience to get to know people yet you claim you want to help them with very personal stuff.
Wat.
Explain that logic?
I have it. I intend to analyse each person's situation individually. What I meant is that I don't have the patience for the opposite, for getting them to know me, since my self and my situation isn't relevant to their personal stuff.
Or maybe you don't want them to get to know you because you're lying about your identity.
Well, whatever. Don't really care what you believe, I only mentioned it to make the point of the thread clearer, which obviously didn't work.
You aren't interested in taking the requisite time to get to know people. Easily infered.
Yes, I didn't create this thread to make friends, to talk amenities, your inferring is correct. I can get to know what is necessary to know in order to help them, though. It's a simple thing.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 03, 2015, 09:39:35 pm »Why in the hell would anyone trust you with stuff if you don't feel like getting to know them?
When was that said?
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 03, 2015, 09:11:55 pm »You don't have the patience to get to know people yet you claim you want to help them with very personal stuff.
Wat.
Explain that logic?
I have it. I intend to analyse each person's situation individually. What I meant is that I don't have the patience for the opposite, for getting them to know me, since my self and my situation isn't relevant to their personal stuff.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 03, 2015, 08:37:27 pm »You will never be able to make a good impression through making a thread like this before anyone even knows you.
You might be right, but I don't have the patience to get people to know me in these forums in the gradual way. I was hoping this thread would address these things, that by the exchange of messages people would get the right impression of me and find my answering reliable.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 03, 2015, 05:19:51 pm »You're kind of missing the point, but whatever.
E: From the 4chan thing:QuoteIndent what? Paragraphs? What for? Is the lack of paragraphs reallly annoying you so much?QuoteAre you retarded? I mean, have you ever considered it?Never mind, it's the same guy.
Nevermind the context, huh.
This is all coming down to bad first impressions. I made a not very impressive opening because there's no way to do an impressive one in this case, and I waited for the questions to start coming so I'd prove myself and my claim, but that didn't happen. People started doubting and testing and I wasn't very patient with it and we get an even worse impression and this impasse. Can the purpose of this thread be given another chance? Or is it something unsalvageable?
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 03, 2015, 05:18:59 pm »
Nevermind.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 03, 2015, 05:01:37 pm »I don't think the whole "who made the 4chan thing?" really matters. It might be penguin, but he has a history of memeing and I'm not inclined to believe him right away.
That said, we'll soon see if this new guy is the real OP, mostly if the style of his answers matches the 4chan thing.What's the point in making a longer one? Isn't it kinda pointless too? And is that all you have to say against this thread? Can't you think of anything else? Or are you gonna start to be on topic now?The point is that people don't like it and if you keep being a twat about it, soon they won't like you, either. Why would you want to cause trouble about such a minor thing?
"The point is that people don't like it"
They don't like it? But is that the point of making a longer one? Going with the majority in order to please them? What about what I like? What I prefer?
"soon they won't like you, either"
I didn't make this thread with the sole objective of being liked, there are actually more important things
"Why would you want to cause trouble about such a minor thing?"
I didn't. Someone brought it up and I answered them and they kept bringing it up. I find it neater to answer each question in a single post, unless they're very simple ones, and since I'm the OP, who's answering the questions, I'm not disrupting the thread by answering the questions, however I do it.
I admit I'm sounding a bit more aggressive than I'd like, but I thought it'd be easier to convince you all and actually start to get the thread going.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: May 03, 2015, 01:25:29 pm »It's just kinda pointless, really. Whats the point of making 2 relatively short posts when you can make one longer one?
What's the point in making a longer one? Isn't it kinda pointless too? And is that all you have to say against this thread? Can't you think of anything else? Or are you gonna start to be on topic now?
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: April 30, 2015, 03:20:48 pm »Dude, we live in 2015 bro.
You know we can type 2 messages in ONE posts? Cool stuff ainīt it ?
Is it such a troubling matter? Is it cluttering the thread, making it harder to navigate, given the fact that I'm the OP? If not, why make such a fuss out of it? Is there anything else that's bothering you?
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: April 30, 2015, 12:12:43 pm »Why did you leave me? You promised me we would always be together. Why did you run from me and the baby?
They probably felt very uncomfortable with remaining in your company. Do you think maybe they were beginning to feel trapped, without any real direction, any positive prospects in a family life with you and the baby? Do you think supposed societal expectatives and norms are enough for a person to deny themselves their identity and agency?
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: April 30, 2015, 12:09:49 pm »Okay, question for OP: Is it acceptable to quote someone without providing a link to the source?
Acceptable for who? It will be acceptable for whoever is okay with it, which will vary from person to person. Or do you mean society-wise? I believe there are many copyright laws covering this area, you should consult a lawyer.
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General Discussion / Re: Ask me anything about relationships, personal and professional stuff.
« on: April 29, 2015, 07:25:44 pm »I thought Penguin was the op of that thread?No, I am Spartacus.
Frankly, being a namef*g from /adv/ isn't very good credentials. I suspect Toady will delete/lock this thread shortly.
Credentials for what? I'm only clarifying what kind of person I am. If there's a namef*g like that, he must be a person, who could or could not be me. That I know about that namef*g and I'm posting in the same style as him gives credibility to the view that we are the same person. But believing in that or not makes no difference to the purpose of this thread.
Huh... I'll bear that in mind. I think at the moment I'm mainly aiming for any damn job I can get, though.How I can has job?You should decide on what job you want to get, make an effort into getting the required qualifications, find an organization that offers that job, and apply to be interviewed about this prospect, trying to make the best possible impression of yourself.
Next question: How does one make friends whilst sober?
You do it by going to them with expectatives other than making friends for the sake of making friends, and try your best to accomplish whatever you went to them for in cooperation in order to build comfortableness with each other in order to be able to develop this relationship by trying new different situations and experiences and 'test', verify each others' behavior in order to know what to expect of each other and develop both trust and respect for each other and with that be able to rely on one another for any eventualities and enjoy whatever you want to enjoy together.
As long as it isn't about technical aspects of it, I'll answer everything. I go by Well-Adjusted Young Man on /adv/.
Who are you, and why should we care. Since this is about our relationship.
The OP of this thread http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/15660796/#15660796
Who actually cares?
(Apart from you. You evidently care a great deal.)
Yes, I do care about who I am.