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Author Topic: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]  (Read 667047 times)

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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5265 on: November 05, 2019, 06:50:54 am »

Classy.  Right up there with finding dates at funerals.
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5266 on: November 05, 2019, 07:00:18 am »

Honestly, if you think a waitress is into you, leaving your number on the receipt is probably the classiest choice of action. It doesn't put the waitress on the spot when she has to be professionally nice to you and it leaves the ball entirely in her court -- she can choose whether to call or discard as she pleases.
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5267 on: November 05, 2019, 07:28:56 am »

So, this has been a topic of some thought and discussion in my friend circle as of late, and unfortunately there isn't any one good general answer to it.

If you're not actively flirting with someone (and even that is an altogether too-broad term that encompasses an extreme range of various actions), there's not really much you can do to avoid giving that impression. If someone is interested in you, they will generally be perfectly capable of interpreting anything and everything you do as a potential sign of interest. Especially if they don't know you particularly well.

Approaching the subject after you've identified it is also, well, somewhat awkward... If taking the direct route and just telling the person that you've noticed certain trends and that you're not interested in that way, it's absolutely not uncommon for them to deny everything and say that you've got it all wrong.

And no, trying to put the brakes on something by turning on the "freeze factor" and attempting to give signs of disinterest really doesn't work. Not only does it mean being unnaturally distant from someone you otherwise get along with, but a number of people are extremely attracted to that kind of aloof and cold behavior.


There are optimal scenarios where this situation can be neutralized with minimal hurt and disappointment, but those scenarios cannot be guaranteed. You really just have to respect her feelings as a person and tell her, presuming that there's absolutely no chance that you'd be willing to explore things with her.
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5268 on: November 05, 2019, 08:48:59 am »

Sounds like she could help you turn over a new leaf! :)
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5269 on: November 05, 2019, 09:55:25 am »

Hah, nice try Yoink  :D
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5270 on: November 05, 2019, 10:48:36 am »

I'm not sure if it's just the batteries in my hearing aid dying, but I think I hear wedding bells...
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5271 on: November 05, 2019, 11:59:44 am »

I'm not sure if it's just the batteries in my hearing aid dying, but I think I hear wedding bells...
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5272 on: November 05, 2019, 01:01:29 pm »

You thought it was a girl from work but no! It was Yoink!
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5273 on: November 05, 2019, 01:15:45 pm »

You thought it was a girl from work but no! It was Yoink!

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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5274 on: November 05, 2019, 05:41:56 pm »

Okay, so I am become drama, the breaker of society.

Her best friend is definitely my type.

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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5275 on: November 05, 2019, 06:31:41 pm »

Okay, so I am become drama, the breaker of society.

Her best friend is definitely my type.

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I see a clear solution.

Ask our her best friend. :3

I say this because you are not in a relationship with other girl at this time.
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5276 on: November 05, 2019, 06:32:17 pm »

Like, there's not really anything to be bothered about going on or particularly dramatic that I can see, taking it from my emotionally-stunted and pragmatic POV.

If you haven't made any suggestions - explicit or otherwise - you're romantically interested in girl 1, then you don't really have anything to worry about. If she does eventually broach the topic, you say you're not interested in her in that way, and continue with your existence. It may be awkward, but only if you let it be awkward.

If you are romantically interested in her friend, then you make the moves on her, whatever that entails. If the initial girl gets bent out of shape over this, that is entirely, 100% her problem, not yours, because you can't help if you're so gosh darned magnetic that you make people wanna get in your man pants through sheer force of personality.

I think the trick here is doing what you did to the first girl to the second one. Good luck with that.

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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5277 on: November 05, 2019, 07:13:41 pm »

I just feel like there are muddy waters in these parts. It's a big social knot which I'm not equipped to deal with. Also, while I'm certain of the other girl's intent, not so much with her.

Good advice though, thanks.
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5278 on: November 05, 2019, 08:59:46 pm »

When and how did humans invade the Mushroom Kingdom? How and why was a human put in charge? I am talking of course about the Mario universe
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Re: The small random questions thread [WAAAAAAAAAAluigi]
« Reply #5279 on: November 05, 2019, 10:17:36 pm »

They're not humans; Mario, Luigi, and Peach are all actually fungi.
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