Sure there are, at least from time to time. Some folks just don't really have much need for that sort of jockeying, even in play. Definitely fairly rare, though. We get a hell of a lot of training throughout life that that sort of thing is how things are supposed to be, and people that manage to be mostly unaffected by that are... not common.
But have you not heard that "Love is a battlefield"?
As is friendship, in a generous way. Where if you don't care enough to at least try in the tussle, then... [unthinkable]
But maybe you're right. I still have my brother, after incredible difficulties, so surely some people find romantic partners with a similarly invincible bond.
You know I am not referring to like... Only when having sex or if the person is the top or not.
There just seems to be an idea of Vapid disinterest as attractive somehow...
But it always comes off to me as a type of unattractive boredom.
It was already explained, but here's my take.
Is it really vapid? If so then sure, there's no draw. But it's hard to gauge vapid disinterest than any other kind
The possibility is that it's disinterest from having *too much* to offer... And people are (generally) attracted to those of a higher station, so someone who appears to be "slumming it" is naturally attractive. Particularly since they're *here*, which implies that they're looking for someone below their station, someone like you.