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Foamybeard

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Girl, what do?
« on: March 23, 2013, 07:20:43 pm »

Alright. I guess I'm making one of those "Help with a girl" threads that I despise, but I'm confused as fuck and have no place to turn other than my friends here.

Three weeks ago this girl I work with (Lets call her... Alice) gave me her number and told me to call her sometime. I gave her a call three days later, and we talked for a while. Then a week later I gave her a call when she didn't show up for work to see if she was okay, because I heard from a mutual friend that she was sick.

That was last Sunday. Last thursday, she complained to my dad (I work as a janitor for a company that contracts for my dad's company) that I "Call her a lot."


I guess I'm confused, since I guess a girl asking you to call her anytime means "Don't call me" or some shit like that.

Fuck it, I don't know, maybe I missed some obscure social cue somewhere, and I came off creepy?

I don't know. Any advice from someone would be appreciated. Any Idea where I went wrong? Why would she give me her number if she didn't want me to call her?
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #1 on: March 23, 2013, 07:23:18 pm »

Just do what I do: Bottle it all up and become an embittered wreck.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #2 on: March 23, 2013, 07:24:21 pm »

Just do what I do: Bottle it all up and become an embittered wreck.

I usually do that, I'm trying to change, however.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #3 on: March 23, 2013, 07:27:24 pm »

Two calls a week apart is too much? Yeah, she's kinda crazy, just move on.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #4 on: March 23, 2013, 07:46:01 pm »

Two calls a week apart is too much? Yeah, she's kinda crazy, just move on.

Aren't they all?

*laugh* True, thats smart.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #5 on: March 23, 2013, 08:38:28 pm »

A Level 30 Space Marine Janitor such as Yourself has no need for such crazy Wenches! forget about Her and move onto a different Girl!
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #6 on: March 23, 2013, 09:50:39 pm »

Two calls a week apart is too much? Yeah, she's kinda crazy, just move on.

Aren't they all?

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Two calls a week apart is too much? Yeah, she's kinda crazy, just move on.

Yeah, she's probably decided she's not interested and isn't telling you that in a very sophisticated way.  Definitely move on.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #7 on: March 23, 2013, 10:51:01 pm »

Alright, I think you guys convinced me. I'll move on to someone who isn't... IDK.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #8 on: March 23, 2013, 11:40:26 pm »

Yeah, she sounds nuts.

Anyway, "all girls are crazy" is just as true as "all guys are crazy." People just be cray cray, yo.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #9 on: March 24, 2013, 12:08:50 am »

I know Kaijyuu, I was just trying to be funny.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #10 on: March 24, 2013, 12:23:36 am »

If you're going to break off whatever you think you have there, do it in a blaze of glory and call her up and ask about it. Make sure to actually call her and not just ask her in person.

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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #11 on: March 24, 2013, 12:28:33 am »

The thing is, she's already told him about it.  If she misses him then she can call him up--the onus is on her.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #12 on: March 24, 2013, 12:48:53 am »

Yes, all girls are crazy. And don't think turning gay will help, the guys are crazy too!

Point is, cut that one loose, there are better fish in yar waters.

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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #13 on: March 24, 2013, 01:00:14 am »

The thing is, she's already told him about it.  If she misses him then she can call him up--the onus is on her.

How anyone can type that without a deliberate typo is beyond me.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #14 on: March 24, 2013, 05:46:05 am »

Just do what I do: Bottle it all up and become an embittered wreck.

I think you just won the Life Advice subforum. :P
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