reading through the legends for this particular example, it seems a slab was found very early, in year 37 by a human civilization just below the dwarven fortress in the screenshot (its not a dark-fortress icon, so it cant be seen). Various necromancers accumulated in that city over the years, especially leaders (heck it even had elves from far-away civs coming to seek immortality).
The dark fortress at the north east of the dwarven hall is a goblin expansion, and in the year 98 the dwarves attacked the goblins with a 1k man army, and the goblins, shockingly managed to win with only 100 goblins, 25 trolls, and several ogres, killing almost all the dwarves (980-ish), while losing about 100 of their numbers as well.
The year right after that it said the slab found in 37 was stored in a "tower" in 99. Seems all the necromancers that gathered in the neutral human civ used all the corpses at once to create their armies. About 8 towers appeared in the area in 1 year. More appeared in the following years, but it soon stagnated.
so for tower-splosions to occur, you need to get very lucky during world gen. Things that cause mass-death in an area where towers may spawn, may cause a tower-splosion. Also of note is that i think once a necromancer as settled down in a tower, they become secluded from others who want to learn the secret, and will no longer teach any new apprentices. So this necromancer has been teaching new apprentices for the 62 years without a tower, in 1 fortress, and when a massive amount of corpses became available in the area; tower-splosion.