My suggestion is to get TL2 asap and then move a few sectors away from the main colonized space area and start looking for high quality resources, cryozine especially. If we could find cryozine that supports tl30+ we could then look for other high quality resources nearby and start colonizing them. Early on it won't be necessary to develop and trade all the high quality resources, but long term it will be nice to have them as we start to gain tech levels. I enjoy exploring space, so I'd be happy to help scout for resources.
As far as leadership, im fine with being leader - but im also fine with just being in charge of a sector (or being crown prince or whatever, as long as I have control over multiple systems since I plan to build up more than one and like having multiple officers to work with). The main thing we need is at least one of the two leadership positions (king or crown prince) in the hands of someone who is online a lot, so someone is around to manage empire settings and titles.
We'll need a flag and empire name. As far as race, we could always have secondary empires solely for creating characters and then move them over. Like if the main race is a ground race with 80hp, we could have another one for a flying race for those who like flying and just have it as a newbie empire with the most basic city and open immigration. Having all characters created in dummy empires and ported over would actually work well, that way we could have the dummies set to open immigration and have them techless and keep the main one set to invitation only - as long as the king/crown prince was online a lot to invite people (can sector admins invite? I've never tried). Even if a dummy empire is conquered it wouldn't be that difficult to have the character swap over to our empire, grab a ship, and build a new little planet with nothing but a capital to make a new dummy empire. It wouldn't even have to be a habitable zone planet, just slap it down on a outer/inner zone somewhere.
We should also probably get some kind of private forum or voip server or exchange IM details or something so we can communicate slightly more securely than just this thread, since anyone and everyone can read this one. Not that we won't have spies, but at least then they have to go through more effort than google searching for bay12 hazeron and reading our thread
