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Author Topic: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads  (Read 32079 times)

Nikov

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And frankly, I'm not sure what to make of it.

Should I go talk to her about it?

Oh wait, I'm her husband, if she's snooping through my private life its as much her business as mine.

Thusly, its as much my business as hers as to why she's snooping.

Thanks for the advice, B12!
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #1 on: August 18, 2010, 09:30:52 am »

Fight fire with fire. Read her texts, read her (e)mail, answer her phone, barge into the bathroom when she's using it, listen in on her conversations with her friends, that kind of thing. She may come to realize that some privacy is needed even in marriage.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #2 on: August 18, 2010, 09:40:22 am »

 Women cannot be reasoned with in such a way or shown the light through example. They are clever creatures that will defend to hell their right to snoop but find your snooping to be an irreversible sin. The only possible solution to this is manipulating the kids to take up more of her time so she won't have time to snoop and scheme your demise.

 But yeah, how did you find this out? It's probably best to just confront her in a calm and peaceful way.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #3 on: August 18, 2010, 09:42:45 am »

I think your marriage is fine.

We should talk about another, more serious, problem.

You have to learn how to delete your post history.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #4 on: August 18, 2010, 09:45:31 am »

 I don't think you can.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #5 on: August 18, 2010, 09:52:39 am »

I'd just like to say...

Hello Mrs Nikov!  Hope you're enjoying this thread!
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #6 on: August 18, 2010, 09:57:51 am »

Who was that other person who had that girlfriend who stalked him?
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #7 on: August 18, 2010, 09:59:44 am »

Pathos. The forum ate him Toady made him walk the plank for unrelated reasons.

Fight fire with fire. Read her texts, read her (e)mail, answer her phone, barge into the bathroom when she's using it, listen in on her conversations with her friends, that kind of thing. She may come to realize that some privacy is needed even in marriage.

If you're serious, then this is rather incredibly bad advice.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #8 on: August 18, 2010, 10:54:25 am »

Who was that other person who had that girlfriend who stalked him?
Hilarious thread was hilarious.

That said, Nikov, you should take all the advice from that thread because it was just so helpful.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #9 on: August 18, 2010, 11:34:09 am »

Distract her with gin and chocolate. Women love those things.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #10 on: August 18, 2010, 11:55:43 am »

Advice:  Don't ask for advice on Bay12.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #11 on: August 18, 2010, 12:12:06 pm »

Create a blog with her name in it and make the only post in it contain the words: "EXCUSE ME, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING"
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #12 on: August 18, 2010, 12:32:51 pm »

Just talk to her about it. She obviously must have some concerns about your relationship if she's doing things like this. As such, the two of you need to deal with said issues ASAP.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #13 on: August 18, 2010, 12:33:43 pm »

Come up with the best possible approach to the problem, then do the opposite.
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Re: My Wife Searched My Post History For Relationship Related Threads
« Reply #14 on: August 18, 2010, 12:37:53 pm »

Deleting your post history is just going to make her more suspicious.

I say give it some time. if she continues, then confront her about it, because it probably means she doesn't trust you enough.

Failing that, start a passive-agressive thread on a forum you frequent, leaving her a thinly veiled message about how you know what she's doing.
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