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[scriver]

Definitely talk to her about it. Explain how you feel, but also be sure to make sure you listen to how she feels, and let her explain why she did it.

[Retro]

...wait, so she looked for all relationship-related threads? Does that mean she saw the Pathos "how do I get my girlfriend to lactate without her noticing" one? Oh man, that's sitcom-misunderstanding material right there.

[Duke 2.0]

...wait, so she looked for all relationship-related threads? Does that mean she saw the Pathos "how do I get my girlfriend to lactate without her noticing" one? Oh man, that's sitcom-misunderstanding material right there.

"But honey, I thought this is what you wanted!"
"No baby, it's creepy and weird. Why would you even think I wanted you to do this?"
"... Sources..."

[moocowmoo]

Create a blog with her name in it and make the only post in it contain the words: "EXCUSE ME, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING"

That's a good plan right there.

[Nikov]

...wait, so she looked for all relationship-related threads? Does that mean she saw the Pathos "how do I get my girlfriend to lactate without her noticing" one? Oh man, that's sitcom-misunderstanding material right there.

Hold on, let me check.

[MetalSlimeHunt]

Wait, how are you figuring all this out? The history log from when she was using your computer last?

[Nikov]

...wait, so she looked for all relationship-related threads? Does that mean she saw the Pathos "how do I get my girlfriend to lactate without her noticing" one? Oh man, that's sitcom-misunderstanding material right there.

Hold on, let me check.

Yes, Metal. And no, she didn't see the lactation thread. Well, she probably DID, but opted not to open it because she deals with lactation enough anyway.

Badum-skkkk!

[scriver]

Yes, Metal. And no, she didn't see the lactation thread. Well, she probably DID, but opted not to open it because she deals with lactation enough anyway.

Badum-skkkk!

I am torn between being happy for you and sad because of the missed opportunity  .
By the way... Doesn't the way you found out about it imply that you were snooping (ehehe... potty humor) around to see what she had been doing?

[Nyxalinth]

Your comment about lactation where she's concerned makes me think she's pregnant or recently gave birth. If so, her emotions are likely still haywire. She might even be feeling down about her pregnant or post-pregnant body, even if you reassure her. Talk it over with her, in a kind and gentle way.  She's likely fretting about you still finding her sexy and attractive.  Pregancy and having the baby can really fuck with a woman's head.

[Muz]

My girlfriend does this too. I subtly hinted to her that I could do the same. She replied by giving me her password to everything and daring me to do it. For some reason, all my exgirlfriends don't mind giving me all their passwords.

[smjjames]

Your comment about lactation where she's concerned makes me think she's pregnant or recently gave birth. If so, her emotions are likely still haywire. She might even be feeling down about her pregnant or post-pregnant body, even if you reassure her. Talk it over with her, in a kind and gentle way.  She's likely fretting about you still finding her sexy and attractive.  Pregancy and having the baby can really fuck with a woman's head.

If I recall, his wife had a baby in late june, so she is probably still breastfeeding. So you're right about recently gave birth....

[G-Flex]

Nikov, won't she find this thread?

Seriously though, just talk to her about it. If she felt the need to do something like that, it seems important to figure out why.

Distract her with gin and chocolate. Women love those things.

Speaking of post histories, has this guy ever said anything in a Life Advice thread that wasn't idiotic trolling?

[DJ]

I think he made this thread so she finds it.

[Nikov]

Its funny, because immediately after posting I asked her what she was doing and she said she was searching to see why I had been angry at her the day before and trying to see what was wrong. Instead she claims I sounded like such an incredible man all the time, and was so happy to see me showing all the good parts of our relationship and bragging about her. We then had sex, about fifteen or thirty minutes of peace, then had a big argument in which I told her about everything on my mind in the last week and why I'd been so angry. Then she was kind of resentful, went off to do the dishes, came back having thought about it and realized she'd missed emotional connections with me so much because I'd been bottling up my angry ( like any man should ) and confusing that for not caring about what happened, when she realized I was really worried for us and missed her. So then we had sex again and she made pork tenderloin for dinner.

So yeah, all your advice sucked because "confront, have sex, rage, make her work, have sex, have dinner" wasn't part of any of your suggestions. I was just seeing if any of you had a clue how to keep a marriage running.

Maggarg; she doesn't drink, much to my disappointment. Alcohol is something of an issue between us.

Nyx; yes, it screws with her head. No, you have no idea how badly.

Scriver; Eeew, that's gross and nothing I would publicly admit to doing except to gloat. PS; remarkably sweet.

DJ; good luck even getting engaged with that attitude.

[Josephus]

Well, glad to hear it went well, man.