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Author Topic: Should I just stop talking to this girl?  (Read 26608 times)

x2yzh9

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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #45 on: October 28, 2010, 07:12:27 pm »

Date her for a while. Have a nasty break up in front of her dad.
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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #46 on: October 28, 2010, 07:14:26 pm »

There's an achievement for knocking her up before you dump her.
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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #47 on: October 28, 2010, 07:16:39 pm »

There's an achievement for knocking her up before you dump her.
Shit, thanks for telling me!

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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #48 on: October 28, 2010, 08:03:22 pm »

It's not all implausible. I dated a girl for 4 years. A week before her period and during her period, she'd be reaaaaallly cranky and hate me for no reason. And then apologize profusely for her behavior later on.
And knows it and does nothing about it and on top of it uses it as an apology to really really behave like an asshole? Sounds like my past four and a half years!

And then girls wonder why men make stupid comments about women on their periods.  ::)

I'm all for equality and gender correctness, but seriously, bleeding for four days in a row and not dying IS pretty damn creepy.
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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #49 on: October 28, 2010, 08:27:28 pm »

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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #50 on: October 28, 2010, 08:33:31 pm »

Whaddup? PMS'ing? :D

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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #51 on: October 28, 2010, 08:38:15 pm »

I'm a guy, but good to see that you think anyone is offended by your notion that 'women use their periods as excuses to really really behave like assholes' must be female.

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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #52 on: October 28, 2010, 08:48:20 pm »

First thing I did was to check your profile, which states you are male, but nevertheless it makes sense :D So no flowerpot there.

Also I never said women generally use their periods as excuses for anything. Some are totally fine while they menstruate, some go all exorcist on your ass. In a totally unhealthy and noticeable way.

And menstruating IS NOT an excuse for behaving like an asshole. If you cant cope with your hormones, dont make other people pay for it. Simple as that. Everybody got their cross to bear.

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Just to clarify, stating eventual vulnerability, kindly and gently asking for help and acceptance is ok.
Throwing furniture for no reason is not.
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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #53 on: October 28, 2010, 08:48:54 pm »

>.> While I'm sure that haveing their period does cause hormonal inbalances in women, to quote my mother "Women who use 'pmsing' as an excuse to act bitchy insult us all"
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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #54 on: October 28, 2010, 08:51:49 pm »

Thank you, KaguroDraven's mom.

She knows what I mean.

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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #55 on: October 28, 2010, 10:35:07 pm »

where the fuck are we at now? close this dump.

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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #56 on: October 29, 2010, 05:17:10 pm »

Welp.

Okay, new problem! Whenever I try to start a conversation with her, she just goes "Mhm" or nods/shakes her head. What the fuck? This is starting to annoy me, I really like her, but her being Bi-Polar.

Fuck, I bet there's a quote about this somewhere. Any advice?

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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #57 on: October 29, 2010, 05:18:39 pm »

Whenever I try to start a conversation with her, she just goes "Mhm" or nods/shakes her head. What the fuck? This is starting to annoy me, I really like her, but her being Bi-Polar.

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Just like "bleeds everywhere" is not a good explanation for disinterest in you, "is bipolar" isn't either.  She doesn't want to spend time with you, mate.  You're annoying her.  You need to back off.
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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #58 on: October 29, 2010, 05:23:01 pm »

Whenever I try to start a conversation with her, she just goes "Mhm" or nods/shakes her head. What the fuck? This is starting to annoy me, I really like her, but her being Bi-Polar.

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Just like "bleeds everywhere" is not a good explanation for disinterest in you, "is bipolar" isn't either.  She doesn't want to spend time with you, mate.  You're annoying her.  You need to back off.

Or it could be her bipolar disorder.

I don't know anything about girls, but maybe relate to her that you have some issues yourself?
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Re: Should I just stop talking to this girl?
« Reply #59 on: October 29, 2010, 05:54:14 pm »

Whenever I try to start a conversation with her, she just goes "Mhm" or nods/shakes her head. What the fuck? This is starting to annoy me, I really like her, but her being Bi-Polar.

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Just like "bleeds everywhere" is not a good explanation for disinterest in you, "is bipolar" isn't either.  She doesn't want to spend time with you, mate.  You're annoying her.  You need to back off.
Need to back off. Hm, interesting. I'd take that to heart if it wasn't so..Vague. I don't know how long I need to just back off and get away from her before she acts to me un-bitch-like(Ie. Doesn't give one-word responses to everything.)
Also, hold on, I have a picture somewhere of her that she took of herself on my phone.

Yea, just to give you an idea of what she's like on a daily basis. She alternates from this to complete bitch. You'll have to look at it sideways.
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