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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #15 on: March 24, 2013, 06:11:32 am »

The thing is, she's already told him about it.  If she misses him then she can call him up--the onus is on her.
No, she told his Dad. And that is just beyond bad manners. I think one final call to get back at her for that wouldn't be so out of line.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #16 on: March 24, 2013, 06:15:59 am »

Well I guess if you are planning on never calling her again, you could always call her and ask her out on a date.
Risk: She says no, you never call her again. Therefor no actual risk.
Reward: A date with the crazy girl who you will never understand.

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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #17 on: March 24, 2013, 04:59:08 pm »

So do you want some tail or not sailor?

I'm not going for it. Poon is good, ya, but I'm not going for some crazy trollop who tells my dad on me.


Thanks for the advice everyone.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #18 on: March 24, 2013, 08:30:31 pm »

Reward: A date with the crazy girl who you will never understand.
How the fuck could this possibly be considered a reward :P
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #19 on: March 24, 2013, 09:43:33 pm »

Man ask: girl, what do?
Bay say: do girl not!
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« Reply #20 on: March 24, 2013, 09:44:53 pm »

Man ask: girl, what do?
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #21 on: March 24, 2013, 11:14:38 pm »

I'm going to break from form and try to give some helpful advice.

Then a week later I gave her a call when she didn't show up for work to see if she was okay, because I heard from a mutual friend that she was sick.
This would likely come across as weird.  "I know something about you which you didn't tell me, please tell me more about it" always sets someone off balance.
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« Reply #22 on: March 24, 2013, 11:20:34 pm »

I wouldn't think it weird provided the source of their information was put up front. Otherwise, I might assume crazy stalking or something.

"Hey, our friend [so-and-so] said you were sick. You okay?" Would be just fine by me.
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #23 on: March 24, 2013, 11:45:24 pm »

our friend [so-and-so] said you were sick. You okay?" Would be just fine by me.

That is exactly what I did.
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« Reply #24 on: March 24, 2013, 11:46:06 pm »

Reward: A date with the crazy girl who you will never understand.
How the fuck could this possibly be considered a reward :P
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #25 on: March 24, 2013, 11:55:11 pm »

Yes, all girls are crazy. And don't think turning gay will help, the guys are crazy too!


Hey, dude. Don't cockblock me. He doesn't need to know that!
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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #26 on: March 25, 2013, 05:15:00 am »

Yes, all girls are crazy. And don't think turning gay will help, the guys are crazy too!


Hey, dude. Don't cockblock me. He doesn't need to know that!

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« Reply #27 on: March 25, 2013, 05:54:48 am »

Your sigtext suddenly becomes vaguely disturbing to me.
Aww, be nice.
If a girl was interested in you and you didn't reflect those feelings it wouldn't be disturbing would it? The vast, vast majority of gay guys aren't going to molest you in your sleep, they are just normal guys who like guys.

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Re: Girl, what do?
« Reply #28 on: March 25, 2013, 09:05:00 am »

The vast, vast majority of gay guys aren't going to molest you in your sleep, they are just normal guys who like guys.
The amount of people that see all gay guys as creepy nymphomaniacs is beyond me :P     
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« Reply #29 on: March 25, 2013, 09:54:35 am »

From my experience (well, French girls are supposed to be special, but...), if I give my number to a guy , I want him to call me. I think there are two (or three [or four]) options :


- WHETHER the first call wasn't as she expected, she was bored, and then she doesn't want you to call her back anymore. It's just that you weren't what she supposed. Sometimes people in private are very different from what we expected before.
- OR she was quite angry when you called her, because she was ....(anything that can make a girl angry, or bothered, or anything). Perhaps then you should just wait one month or 2, and call her before dinner someday, when you feel it. For some girls it's perfectly normal and she could even blame you to your father in 2 months that you DON'T call her.
If what you told us is true, she didn't told your father that the fact that you call her is a problem, but only the "too much" part. I don't think it means that "I don't want you to call me anymore".

If it was me, i could have told myself "well, I don't really want him to call me EVERYTIME I have a problem" and she feared you could become invasive.

- Perhaps it's just you misunderstood : she didn't tell this to your father, or your father didn't understand well. In my opinion, and if it's really a girl with whom you work, you should just talk to her. If it's just a misunderstanding, it will be fine. And if it's not, she will probably tell you.

- The last explanation is that you didn't really told us everything. Did you send her a lot of messages or emails, for example ?


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