Could just be discomforts about privacy encroachments,
I mean, yeah, I don't want to know that much about anyone. I don't like having that kind of knowledge; the last time I dove through people's profiles and posts deliberately, I got so paranoid about being found out, I completely noped out of the whole idea. I'd rather live in blissful ignorance than to "have" to suppress info. Profiles are a gateway drug to posts, so I cut those out too.
or methylatedspirits is one of the fey folk and needs to be invited across a threshold or face consequences
I'm vaguely offended, but that's actually true. I have a set of dynamic whitelists that start off empty (all topics disallowed) for each "people-unit" (either actual people, or groups of people), and slowly get filled in as I learn. For instance, my procedure for barging into new communities is:
0) Lurk if possible. This gives you information on what's going on.
1) Barge in with something that should be inoffensive.
2) Listen intently to the responses. If hostile, get the fuck out of there; they're not worth your time. Anything less, start poking.
3) Keep posting, using responses as feedback, so that the 'list can be fleshed-out. The 'list is all-important; it determines how vulnerable I can get around said community, as well as what parts of myself I can reveal.
It's a rather anxious process, I'll admit. I want to ask permission first, not ask forgiveness later, but I don't think it makes much sense to ask people for permission. Instead, I prefer to just barge in and hope for the best.
I'd rather sit awkwardly in the corner, were I not "granted" suitable permissions. Every decision has consequences, and I don't want to face the negative ones.
Eh, methylatedspirit registered January 28, 2019 at exactly 04:11:33 am. I'm sure they'll get over looking up people's profiles in time.
Shift that time ahead by 12 hours, and that's the local time of when I registered, 4:11:33 pm. Can't believe I've been here for 2 years and 3 months now. I'd look through my posts for my first General Discussion post, but I ain't looking at that. I think they're terrible, but I don't like to erase what is essentially history.
[Obligatory "Let's all stare at this person's profile!"]
They seem so stupid. I wonder how they live. Can't believe they're on the same planet as me.